I have tried everything, different possitions, foreplay, oral stimulation etc but nothing. The only way I can get off is using a hard steam on my clitor while showering. I feel frustrating and really sad. Am I not normal ?

Should I say my pathner that i did orgasm or lie ? He does everything for me but I just cant get off. (same was with my previous patners). Dont want him to think that I am not normal and having some problems.